why i try not to think about it – reason #1
having unrequited feelings for someone is probably the most sadistic thing you can do to yourself. it’s the most time-wasting, heart-breaking, self-torturing thing to immerse yourself in. it inhibits your concentration, it’s counter-productive. it reeks of dependence and weakness and low self-esteem. it leads you to believe that you’re only complete with someone else. it leaves teardrop stains in your diary and on your new white shirt.
worst of all, no one gets hurt other than yourself. so why bother?